I Am In Love With An Old Man

Hello friends, I would like to share the story of my friend who has having a hard times on dealing with her feelings towards his Old Man Crush. This Man is already around 60's of age while my friend is as young as 29 years old. My friend is working in the hotel and also this man works in the same company where they used to see each other five times a week. My friend became attracted with this mans personality, the way he dress, talks, walks, and many more but he is not young looking at all and probably also a married man.

She started to show her feelings and admiration with him constantly everyday even at work, she was joking and teasing with him secretly to make him notice her and it worked. One day she was asked for a date by her crush and she's so happy to know that he might also like her, but that day turned into a disappointment because her crush announced that he can't be able to attended on their date that day. After which, she felt bad and became colder for that man, she stopped joking and talking much with him and it upsets the Man because of her new behavior. Her crush gave her a little message on the phone asking for another chance to have date but she refused, that made him back off for several days now...and he gave her space.

She was always thinking about him but she doesn't want to give the same attention she did before but inside of her she always wanted to be near to him... She is now very upset and wondering if he was also thinking about her, or will there be any chance that they will be together more than just friends....

But she has a lot of worries like the following...

( In his age he has probably wife and i was still attracted to him and he was too old already for my age to get hooked with shim but i still want him, What should i do? I really like him and i want him, but i want him to do more effort to win me as every women likes to be pampered by a man...will he ever be mine?)

She was asking an advise for me but i cant't give any answer to her, so i decided to write here on my lot because you might have some good opinion about this matter... Please feel free to comment.... thank you in advance...

hmmm..
I don't know how to start advicing with this thread but i hope that it'll help.

honestly,attraction is being misinterpreted as love.
The 1st thing she should do is to know if that man is married,widow,or single.
If he is married then better cut off the feelings coz she is already sinning.
If he is in the last two then it might be a chance.note That It MIGHT BE.

second,she should not pose her intentions to him.not because she has this pride.but to be careful that she is winning his heart not his fly.
Anyway if he realy has a good intention then he will make another move and in the most descent way without your friends efforts.

it hurts but its the truthful advice i could give.

Well thank you dear, for that advice, i appreciate it...

thnx you

graciamm wrote:

Well thank you dear, for that advice, i appreciate it...

you're most welcome dear..
As the Word says:

Open rebuke is better than secret love.

which means,
aanhin mo ang matatamis at mabubulaklak na salita kung ikapapahamak nya.
Mas mabuting sabihin mo na at mailigtas mo sya.hehehe.

yshii wrote:

graciamm wrote:

Well thank you dear, for that advice, i appreciate it...

you're most welcome dear..
As the Word says:

Open rebuke is better than secret love.

which means,
aanhin mo ang matatamis at mabubulaklak na salita kung ikapapahamak nya.
Mas mabuting sabihin mo na at mailigtas mo sya.hehehe.

ayos yan which means mop

ano yung mop?

yshii wrote:

ano yung mop?

mode of payment

yshii wrote:

graciamm wrote:

Well thank you dear, for that advice, i appreciate it...

you're most welcome dear..
As the Word says:

Open rebuke is better than secret love.

which means,
aanhin mo ang matatamis at mabubulaklak na salita kung ikapapahamak nya.
Mas mabuting sabihin mo na at mailigtas mo sya.hehehe.

correct correct kayo wag tayong maniniwala sa mga matatamis na salita baka ito pa ang ating ipahamak

tma sa isang salita matamis pwde ka bumigay pero hindi mo alam sa tamis ng salita nay ito pa ang mananakit ng damdamin mo